My Social Filter



My Social Filter 

Each class had the opportunity to learn about their "Social Filter and how it works". 
We started off the lesson looking at the different types of filters and the purpose of a filter. We then looked a 3-D brain to start our exploration of the brain and how our emotions affect our brains. 
We discovered that the Prefrontal Cortex is where our social filter is located. 
Next we read the book "I can't believe you said that! 
By Julia Cook.

Summary of the book: 
RJ says what he thinks… no matter how it sounds or makes others feel. His mouth is getting him into a lot of trouble.
RJ doesn't realize his words sometimes hurts others. He thinks he's just offering feedback. It's time RJ starts using his social filter when he speaks. With help from his parents, he learns he doesn't have to verbalize every thought that pops into his head.          
                                                                                                                    This is Bob! 


We also discovered that we have a THINKING BUBBLE and a TALKING                            
BUBBLE. The thinking bubble is for private thoughts and are
for you ONLY. Our Talking Bubble is for everyone to hear. 
Our social filter, filters the thoughts from our thinking bubble
that move to our talking bubble. It also filters the movements our
body makes. 
When our filter is not working, we may say things that make other feel
uncomfortable (unexpected). Our social filter helps us say and do expected 
things that make others feel comfortable. 

 Sometimes it may take time and strategies to help us practice using our social filter. 
Being aware of expected and unexpected behaviours, depending on the social situation or
others we are around, helps our social filter work more successfully, thus helping us 
to have many positive relationships! 
Thanks,

 The Hub 
        
                                                                                                                                







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